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Abner Jefferson PONDER

Abner Jefferson PONDER[1, 2]

Male 1755 - 1832  (77 years)

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  • Name Abner Jefferson PONDER 
    Born 1755  Augusta, VA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Male 
    FamilySearch ID KNQ3-G53 
    Reference Number 40 
    _UID 3725D6778CB844C3B945A42927A0FA31B146 
    Died Dec 1832  Bon Aqua Springs, Hickman Co, Tennessee Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Buried Ponder-Perkins C, Bon Aqua Springs, Hickman Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Person ID I13970  Carney Wehofer Feb 2024 Genealogy
    Last Modified 12 Dec 2022 

    Father Daniel PONDER,   b. Abt 1720, MD Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. Aft 1788, SC Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age ~ 69 years) 
    Mother Jemima BENNETT,   b. 1724, Sussex, Delaware, British Colonial America Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. Abt 1784, South Carolina Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 60 years) 
    Married 23 Aug 1751  Delaware, Delaware, Iowa Find all individuals with events at this location  [3
    Family ID F7237  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 Sarah (Mcguin) GUIN,   b. Abt 1750, Ireland? Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. Bon Aqua, Hickman Co, Tennessee Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Children 
     1. Elizabeth (Weems) PONDER,   d. Grayson Co?, TX? Find all individuals with events at this location
     2. Jefferson PONDER,   b. GA? Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. Ripley Co, MO Find all individuals with events at this location
     3. Asa Archibald PONDER,   b. Abt 1797,   d. 1852, Ripley Co, MO Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age ~ 55 years)
     4. Mary Polly (Burden) PONDER,   b. Abt 1800, Elbert County, Georgia Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. Bef 1819, Hickman County, Tennessee Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age ~ 18 years)
     5. Amos F. PONDER,   b. Abt Feb 1801, Elbert County, Georgia Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 1868, Missouri Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age ~ 66 years)
     6. Abner J. Jr PONDER,   b. Jun 1805, Elbert County, Georgia Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. Doniphan, MO Find all individuals with events at this location
     7. James Madison PONDER,   b. Abt 1807, Hickman County, Tennessee Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. Abt 1845, Ripley Co, MS Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age ~ 38 years)
     8. Clarissa (Perkins) (Webb) PONDER,   b. 15 Mar 1813, Bon Aqua, Hickman Co, Tennessee Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. Aft 13 Jan 1888, Hickman County, Tennessee Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 74 years)
    Last Modified 29 Aug 2016 
    Family ID F7219  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 2 Sarah BURDEN,   d. Yes, date unknown 
    Last Modified 29 Aug 2016 
    Family ID F7202  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 3 Jane GREEN?,   b. Abt 1770,   d. Abt 1791, GA? Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age ~ 21 years) 
    Married Bef 1785  Buffalo Gap, Augusta Co, Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Children 
     1. John Reuben PONDER,   b. 1785, Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 2 Jun 1871, Braxton, Simpson Co, Mississippi Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 86 years)
     2. Thomas PONDER,   b. 1787-1788, Elbert County, Georgia Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. Aft 1850, Mendenhall, Simpson Co, Mississippi Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 63 years)
     3. Catherine (Price) PONDER,   b. 1790, GA, Elbert Co? Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. Franklin Co, MS Find all individuals with events at this location
    Last Modified 29 Aug 2016 
    Family ID F7204  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

  • Notes 
    • !The relationship of Abner Jefferson Ponder to Daniel Ponder has not been proven as of this date 19 aug 1991. This appears to be a good guess for a wide variety of reasons, some of which will be explained below.

      !The first known record of Abner Jefferson Ponder, born 1755, seems to be about 1781 when he fought in the Rev. War, probably at King's Mountain and Cowpens in SC. There have been several theories as to who Abner's father was; many serious Ponder researchers, including myself, have concluded that Daniel Ponder and Jemima Bennett were his parents.
      Others have speculated that he was born in Baden, Germany, and migrated to the USD before 1780. Spence and Spence in their book, "A History of Hickman County, Tennessee," published in 1900 state that Abner J.Ponder was born in Germany in 1755. This possibility is supported by two other facts. The first is a letter written by Abner J. Ponder's grandson, Col. Abner Jefferson Ponder, dated 27 Jan 1904 from Doniphan, MO, to a Mr. Joseph Brown in Delaware in which the grandson writes that his grandfather was of (Dutch) German descent.
      A second supporting fact is that in 1832 a large family named Ponder led by Valentine and William Ponder, came from Baden Germany, and settled in MO along the MS River and near many of the descendents of Abner J. Ponder. This could be coincidence since many other German families settled in the same area at that time.
      None of these possibilities have been proven or disproved. So, to date, Abner Jefferson Ponder's life before 1781 remains a mystery. There seems to be no ties between the Ponder name and the English family names of Pounder, Pinder, or Pender except as misspelling by clerks and record keepers.
      After the Rev. War it is known that Abner J. Ponder was in Virginia, furthering the possibility that he was the son of Daniel and Jemima Bennett Ponder who lived for a time at Buffalo Gap, Virginia. John Reuben Ponder, a son of Abner, was born in Virginia in 1785. Soon after, however, Abner J. Ponder was known to have been in Abvbeyville Co, SC, and by 1787 was in Elbert Co, GA. His second son, Thomas Ponder, was born in GA in 1787 or 1788. It is believed that Abner J. Ponder was back in Abbeyville Co, SC in 1790 and then back in Elbert Co, GA by 1791.
      "Abner" was a very common name in the Ponder family. The Abner Ponder who
      married James Knox and lived in SC and GA is often confused with Abner Jefferson Ponder, but that Abner seems to have been Abner Jefferson Ponder's
      nephew, although that has not been proven either.
      By 1806 Abner J. Ponder had moved his family to Hickman County, TN. An
      account of this move if given in "A History of Hickman Co, TN," which tells of
      Abner's settling at Bon Aqua Springs. In was in this account that Abner Jefferson was reportedly born in Germany. (See "The Family of Abner Ponder,"
      compiled by Jerry Ponder and Eldon Dow Vandiver, 1989, published by Ponder
      Books of Doniophan, MO, for a more extensive account of this move and for
      additional information on Abner Jefferson.
      While it has long been believed that Abner Jefferson was a Rev. War veteran, it was not until 1988/89 that Jerry Ponder, a descendant of Abner Jeffgerson, and the primary author of "The Life of Abner Jefferson Ponder," clearly proved his Revolutionary War service. On October 6, 1989, the Tennessee Daughters of the Revolution dedicated a grave marker to Abner Jefferson Ponder, a Revolutionary War veteran. Jerry Ponder of MO, Pat Saupe of Indiana, Catherine and Thomas C. Ponder of Texas, among others, attended this moving event. Pat Saupe provided me pictures of the guests and of the cemetery and headstone. Pictures of the event, including the headstone, appear in Jerry Ponder's "Life of Abner Jefferson Ponder." A twenty-year genealogical search had finally culminated in identifying most of Abner's descendants with the family history and clearly establishingh the war record of our progenitor.

      In the census of 1830, Hickman Co, TN, page 62 we find Abner Ponder and Archibald Ponder. They also appear in the 1832 Census of Hickman Co, Tn.2

  • Sources 
    1. [S818] John T. Palmer, Ph.D., John T. Palmer, Ph.D.

    2. [SAuth] Jim Carney, compiled by James H Carney [(E-ADDRESS), & MAILING ADDRESS FOR PRIVATE USE], Buderim, Queensland 4556 AUSTRALIA.

    3. [S1160] FamilySearch Family Tree (http://www.familysearch.org), The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, ((http://www.familysearch.org)), accessed 12 Dec 2022), entry for Jemima BENNETT, person ID LCJD-X8Q. (Reliability: 3).